Read Mark Morford.

He'll irritate you if you're conservative, and occasionally maybe even if you're not, but if he didn't already have a "beautiful" - and lucky - girl, I'd be hanging out around the San Francisco Chronicle offices on my next vacation, really. What a writer, and I have to admire a man who can address the issue of love and relationships from a balanced, non-icky point of view. It's a rare gift. (but then again, I occasionally watch Shalom in the Home, so maybe you shouldn't listen to me, but check out Mark Morford anyway!)